Dear Christina, I have been married for ten years. We have two kids. I want to stay together. I love my wife. We have been in counselling for a couple years now and I am at a point where resentment is all I see. When she says anything, I am automatically defensive and often throw the “divorce” word around. All I hear is criticism, yet all I want is time with her and a connection. How do I even start to break down her wall and prove to her that she is my everything?
– Lost & Terrified Dear Lost and [...]
Hey Christina, How do I find true love and companionship if the only way to do so is by swiping right, crossing my fingers and hoping that I get a like back? I have been on a couple dating apps for weeks now and the results are discouraging. It leaves me wondering if I will ever find love.
– Incredibly Discouraged Dear Incredibly Discouraged, I [...]
Hey Christina, I’ve had success in my career and have great friends. I have passions and adventure in my life. I have had some short and long term relationships and have recently broken up with another. I cannot seem to find the right person for me. This break up has me wanting to move to a new city and start all over. Maybe then I will find what I’m looking for?
– Searching Dear Searching, Oh, the desire [...]
Hey Christina, I went on a handful of dates with a man who could talk the talk when it came to love language and attachment style; he captivated me. We spent hours talking and getting to know one another. The day after we slept together, he told me that his avoidant attachment was activated and he couldn’t see me again. I am so damn sad and can’t help but wonder “why?” I am left asking myself, “What’s wrong with me?”, “Was I not enough?”, “Was I awful in bed?”, “Will I ever find a man?”
– Blindsided Dear Blindsided, Let me start [...]